I have worked in the schools for 38 yrs as a psychologist. The number of very young girls who want to transgender in contagious. Some are depressed and unhappy and some are in teen or preteen rebellion. I should say that I wanted to be a man from age 3 to about 11 when I realized I would never be big enough or strong enough to truly fit in. When I got curves and attention from boys I became a strong but feminine women. Some girls change their mind after a year or so. I advocate for not “educating” sexual genders in school and to refrain from validating or encouraging gender ideology with preteens and teens. Since I am semi retired I can voice my opinion although respectfully and share my own story.
Well, you have walked the walk for quite some time. No doubt you've observed firsthand the changes of the last few years. Glad you can supplement your advice with your own lived experience. Do you have any advice for a school psychologist just now entering the field?
I would say make a habit to question what is beneath the behavior. For me I wanted to be an adventurer, explore different cultures, be included, and have a seat at the table. Something I thought would be easier for a male in the 1960s. Basically I rejected the idea of a domestic role and not having my opinion considered. Often still true in church settings.
I have worked in the schools for 38 yrs as a psychologist. The number of very young girls who want to transgender in contagious. Some are depressed and unhappy and some are in teen or preteen rebellion. I should say that I wanted to be a man from age 3 to about 11 when I realized I would never be big enough or strong enough to truly fit in. When I got curves and attention from boys I became a strong but feminine women. Some girls change their mind after a year or so. I advocate for not “educating” sexual genders in school and to refrain from validating or encouraging gender ideology with preteens and teens. Since I am semi retired I can voice my opinion although respectfully and share my own story.
Meant to reply directly to you, Catherine. See my comment above . . .
Well, you have walked the walk for quite some time. No doubt you've observed firsthand the changes of the last few years. Glad you can supplement your advice with your own lived experience. Do you have any advice for a school psychologist just now entering the field?
I would say make a habit to question what is beneath the behavior. For me I wanted to be an adventurer, explore different cultures, be included, and have a seat at the table. Something I thought would be easier for a male in the 1960s. Basically I rejected the idea of a domestic role and not having my opinion considered. Often still true in church settings.
So appreciate this, Catherine. Looking below the behavior is what many with wisdom are saying. Unfortunately, it is wisdom unheeded.