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Mark, All of your posts are profound and powerful, but this one goes to even greater heights. I literally got chills reading it. I have a family member who is trans. He, I can’t call him she, has almost no contact with his family, by his choice. He’s in his late 30s and I haven’t seen since he was a teenager. The few family members he does interact with rarely all affirm his “choice.” I just can’t. Your words encourage me.

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Always gratifying to know when an article either inspires or informs. Thanks for your ongoing encouragement!

The ultimate goal for our families, kids, friends who make these choices is not merely that they view themselves the way God does, but that they enter the kingdom of heaven. Ostracizing to make a point likely drives them further away. Peace, brother!

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Feb 28, 2023Liked by Mark Ongley

Mark this is just what I needed to hear! Hang onto Truth while loving unconditionally- build a bridge! These are truly words to exemplify, and I will carefully be considering them as I transition my daughter to legal adulthood. I truly believe what you said, when she is convinced of my love, she will more carefully consider my Truth! The Truth! Thank you!

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Yep, it's not theoretical for you. In your home, you are living this out day by day. Keep leaning into God for all the grace and strength you need!

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